“Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.” This phrase says whatever happen in our lives happens for a reason and we can solve our problems or difficult situation through the minor things happening in our lives.
Life is not same throughout. Neither it is bed of flowers nor is it series of incessant misfortunes. Every man faces bunch of difficulties in life, and undergoes a constant course of evolution. A person needs to take responsibilities, confront challenges and craft suitable response.
Sometimes we think that we can resolve the problem we come across, but later with time that problem seems much more intricate and makes us think that we are not able to resolve it. This is the situation that has to be dealt with rationally. In my life I came across situations that ended with sadness. Now, I am going to explain the situation, solution and process utilized by me to resolve most of the problems. Problem solving is the mental process that takes a person from a given state to the desired goals. Problem solving can be considered as a cognitive process that needs the inflection and organizing of routine or fundamental skills. The process I adopt to resolve most my problem is to lead by examples of real life and believe me this process really works. Let me explain the particular problem I came across in my academic career. I have been a position holder student and was in the good books of my teachers. Suddenly I shifted my school and was not able to cope up due to the change of the board pattern. I was from Rajasthan board and there it was Central board. The approach for both the education pattern is entirely different. At that point of time, I required a right approach that I was not able to discover myself. Though, my mother was trying to enable me to cope up. Some of my teachers were also trying to encourage me but all in vain. After some time everyone stopped there endeavor. I was very worried because of the continuous downfall I had seen during last years of my schooling. I was in the position of embarrassment and like a person who is watching others doing something that I was not able to do. One day I was washing my hands with a small piece of soap. Suddenly it fell down from my hands but I picked it up. Again when I started washing my hands it fell down. I got irritated but once again picked it up. This happened again for once or twice. Finally I got angry and left that soap piece there. Later I realized that I was in the position of that small piece of soap that needed support during that time of downfall. There I realized that I will have to help myself because others can help me once, twice, thrice... but after that they will not care. As it is said that action of persons are the interpreters of their thoughts. Therefore from that day I started working hard and continuously updated my knowledge, so that I can get admission in good college with the subjects of my interest. I proceeded with the following process:
Identified what I actually need to achieve in life
Prepared an action plan
Boosted myself with continuous improvement
I consider this event as an Inspirational Chronicle of my life. Everyone needs inspiration during such a hard time along with the support of others. In my view both inspiration and support goes hand in hand. This Inspirational Chronicle has made me more observant, focused and I have started to lead the problems by examples of real life.
Therefore I feel nothing is impossible in this world. It is obvious that we feel disappointed by a defeat and get upset due to the failure. So nothing is aberrant regarding these feelings. But the fact is that these feelings should not take one’s positive thinking and make one feel that life is hurting and agonizing burden. In addition to this one should also not be ashamed of these feelings. All this is part of life and life surely has a reason attached with every problem and helps us recognize the hidden potential in ourselves.
To conclude I would like to state that the thing that takes us to a flourishing life is the utilization of that specific process which in my opinion is to lead a problem with the examples of real life and one should also have believe in self because god also help those who help themselves. In addition to this I believe in the saying of John Maxwell that “ when one make right changes to thinking only then other things turn out right”.
Saturday, October 3, 2009
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